tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.comments2023-05-26T05:08:21.056-07:00Harrie Farrow AuthorHarrie Farrowhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13395726349128884654noreply@blogger.comBlogger106125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-1793848329953737592017-10-09T20:21:44.247-07:002017-10-09T20:21:44.247-07:00Thank you Harrie for your great insights I am comi...Thank you Harrie for your great insights I am coming out bisexualmore and more everyday. I feel normal about it, and feel like it makes me a better listener and better lover for sure. Sincerely, RonRonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08509203883847678107noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-77700548848591187002016-12-21T20:06:25.975-08:002016-12-21T20:06:25.975-08:00Sad how that works, right? Wishing you all the bes...Sad how that works, right? Wishing you all the best!Harrie Farrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13395726349128884654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-33842168860594849392016-12-21T20:05:51.311-08:002016-12-21T20:05:51.311-08:00Glad to be of some help! Thanks for you feedbackGlad to be of some help! Thanks for you feedbackHarrie Farrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13395726349128884654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-68171744666209114622016-12-21T13:21:50.855-08:002016-12-21T13:21:50.855-08:00Wonderful article, thank you!! I've been comin...Wonderful article, thank you!! I've been coming out as bi recently and though I thought my friends all knew, I guess they don't. A number of them are surprised I want to date women even though I'VE TOLD THEM I'M BI BEFORE. <br /><br />You wouldn't likely forget your friend telling you they're lesbian, but it seems to be very different for bi folks. I literally have to say, "I want to date women" for them to get that I'm not just talking about a theoretical attraction.<br /><br />-generalistAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-86932526223587284752016-11-24T11:40:03.531-08:002016-11-24T11:40:03.531-08:00Thank you for writing about your experience. As a ...Thank you for writing about your experience. As a 26 year old bisexual, who recently came out to my mother, this helps to put my thoughts into words. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-58742825329553191602016-09-27T11:53:07.473-07:002016-09-27T11:53:07.473-07:00Thank you!Thank you!Harrie Farrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13395726349128884654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-86507435761076773392016-09-27T07:45:40.611-07:002016-09-27T07:45:40.611-07:00Awesome awesome awesome article Harrie, really gre...Awesome awesome awesome article Harrie, really great!Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03194876108577370501noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-68953551464819891462016-09-19T13:36:46.315-07:002016-09-19T13:36:46.315-07:00TY!TY!Harrie Farrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13395726349128884654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-30623759549970329772016-09-19T13:13:01.292-07:002016-09-19T13:13:01.292-07:00Great post! Shared on Twitter.Great post! Shared on Twitter.Scarlett Knighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01951561653896867293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-88884240376062914972016-08-29T23:10:13.944-07:002016-08-29T23:10:13.944-07:00you are providing is so amazing.you are providing is so amazing.Intraday Gold Tipshttp://www.bullionjackpotcall.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-13321819459414869332016-07-30T11:33:22.303-07:002016-07-30T11:33:22.303-07:00Thanks!Thanks!Harrie Farrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13395726349128884654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-13124061272442601852016-07-30T11:32:45.769-07:002016-07-30T11:32:45.769-07:00Thank you!Thank you!Harrie Farrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13395726349128884654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-83367712037579229312016-07-30T11:06:24.264-07:002016-07-30T11:06:24.264-07:00This is a great poem---really captures what it'...This is a great poem---really captures what it's like to be bi.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02577065400343850271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-88825644651650348652016-07-30T11:02:58.127-07:002016-07-30T11:02:58.127-07:00Good read!Good read!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02577065400343850271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-10890563335179615802016-07-22T00:09:17.616-07:002016-07-22T00:09:17.616-07:00Thank you very much for writing and sharing this a...Thank you very much for writing and sharing this article. I kind of bought in to some of the ideas of bi-privilege before, and, you're right, it's no privilege to pretend to be someone that you're not.<br /><br />Passing for something you're not is a double-edged sword. Sometimes it gets you good stuff, and helps you avoid bad things, but sometimes it gets you ignored or hated by people in your community - this applies to race, sexuality, dis/ability, etc. I know because I pass for white, pass for straight, generally pass for abled, and more. So, I get hate and/or hostility from a lot of places where I long to belong.<br /><br />It's sad, but, for now, until other people catch up, I guess we have to keep fighting, and build our own communities. :/<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-76168713964460365102016-05-30T13:08:27.439-07:002016-05-30T13:08:27.439-07:00this was very interesting!! Thank you for sharing!...this was very interesting!! Thank you for sharing! I really love hearing about other's experiences with these thingsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-47853722722748020032016-05-17T19:56:54.377-07:002016-05-17T19:56:54.377-07:00Good!Good!Scarlett Knighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01951561653896867293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-77227433197904200152016-03-23T09:59:30.663-07:002016-03-23T09:59:30.663-07:00Thank you for that suggestion. It's a good ide...Thank you for that suggestion. It's a good idea. I will likely write on that some time.Harrie Farrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13395726349128884654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-32924499877007985452016-03-23T03:54:52.992-07:002016-03-23T03:54:52.992-07:00I was wondering if you would consider writing abou...I was wondering if you would consider writing about the male perception of female bisexuality, in a way that explains why men have these views, and explain why these views are harmful to bi women. It would be a good idea, because some hetro men need to understand that a woman being bi isn't a call for a threesomeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-45077736899629570082016-01-27T21:02:29.466-08:002016-01-27T21:02:29.466-08:00Straight people don’t come out because they don’t ...Straight people don’t come out because they don’t have to in this heteronormative society where it’s generally automatically assumed that a person is straight. If bisexuals want to be seen as they really are they have to come out. <br />The relatively new higher acceptance of gay people we have today is due hugely to Harvey Milk’s successful campaign to get gay people to be out to their friends, neighbors, church members, co-workers and families. Once straight people realized that gay people are pretty much similar to them, things began to change. <br />Ideally, no one would care what anyone’s sexual orientation is except if they were wanting to perhaps get into a relationship or have a sexual encounter with the person, but right now we do have prejudices and phobias and biphobia is found among gays as well.<br />If bisexuals are going to be more accepted and acknowledged by society, people have to know that there are bisexuals they already know - friends, family members, neighbors. This is the only way society will learn that being bisexual does not necessarily mean the orgy-loving indiscriminate stereotypes portrayed in porn, or the cheating, confused, greedy people incapable of commitment sensationalized in dramatic fiction, or the bi-today-gay-tomorrow stereotypes complained about by some in the gay community. <br />Harrie Farrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13395726349128884654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-20000732741425121702016-01-27T06:02:55.117-08:002016-01-27T06:02:55.117-08:00straight people dont come out why should bis and g...straight people dont come out why should bis and gays/lesbians come out. i would love a responseSeannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-3690855577132952142016-01-02T07:28:13.625-08:002016-01-02T07:28:13.625-08:00Glad you found it useful. Thanks for letting me kn...Glad you found it useful. Thanks for letting me know!Harrie Farrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13395726349128884654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-70727886696281904412016-01-02T00:54:16.122-08:002016-01-02T00:54:16.122-08:00Great article..Proud gay here!Great article..Proud gay here!Adamhttp://www.adam4adam.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-37177096227714269072015-12-28T22:41:06.077-08:002015-12-28T22:41:06.077-08:00Oh, yes, absolutely!Oh, yes, absolutely!Harrie Farrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13395726349128884654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2518825014497993658.post-41486449693192064982015-12-28T22:36:29.526-08:002015-12-28T22:36:29.526-08:00And listen to The BiCast!http://thebicast.org/And listen to The BiCast!http://thebicast.org/The BiCasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14904051624342606816noreply@blogger.com